So several months ago my father-in-law Larry kind of got roped into being a team captain for a Relay for Life team. He had never done one before, but thought it would be a great thing to do. He e-mailed me, asking me to be his co-captain and told me our team name was "Cowboy Up". He said we would do it in honor of my Mom, because "if anybody knew how to cowboy up, she did." The gesture was very sweet and of course made me cry. I was on board. Before we knew it, our team had snowballed into a neighborhood/friend team. When it was all said and done, we had over 40 members. Almost everyone was either a survivor of cancer, or had someone in their family who had died or battled cancer. It was incredible to see. Sometimes I feel a little picked on, like my family is the only one that has been devastated by cancer. At this event, everyone has.
I wasn't much of a team co-captain at all, I had no experience with these relays and not a lot of time to devote to it. Larry and Bonnie made up for any slack on anyone's part. They racked up the donations from friends and family wanting to help out the great cause. One weekend Randy and I went up to Logan and did a bake sale at Nibley's Heritage Days where all of the funds went to the American Cancer Society, we had quilts made and donated to our team, we had baskets filled with spa items from Randy's cousin Laura who owns a nice salon in Logan. We did a silent auction for those and ended up making a lot of money on them. One quilt sold for $300! I was overcome at the generosity of people. This is bigger than we are, and it was great to see everyone come together for one great cause. Our team ended up raising over $3,000 and together as a whole the Logan Relay for Life raised over $82,000! That is amazing. Our team came in 5th place for most money raised, the top 4 had corporate sponsors. I thought that was pretty neat.
I wasn't really sure what to expect of the relay itself, other than I knew I would probably cry the whole time. ; ) I decided since our team name was Cowboy Up, that I would wear my Mom's bright yellow cowboy hat. She was a rodeo queen and loved that thing. I remember when I was little, opening the box it was stored nicely in and just staring at it. It was the coolest thing ever. I wasn't sure I even wanted to take it out of the box because it means that much to me, and I was worried about what my Dad thought. When I asked him what he thought about me wearing it he got choked up and said, "I'd be right proud." Aww. That sealed the deal. I proudly wore it in honor of my beautiful rodeo queen mother while I walked laps. I got so many compliments on it and people wanting to know the story behind it. It was neat being able to talk about my Mom and share her story.
One thing you can do at Relay for Life is have luminaries made in honor of cancer patients. At night they have a luminary lighting ceremony and it is so reverent and emotional. The track was lined with these luminaries. So many people affected by cancer. I made some in honor of my mom and sister, Lori. Since my Dad is a survivor I wore his color of cancer bracelet on my wrist. Ironically, it says LIVESTRONG. :) The luminaries were my favorite part of the whole thing, it just makes it so real and so worth all of the time and effort.
These things go for 24 hours, so naturally there is entertainment. Larry sang some cowboy songs on Friday afternoon, one was one he wrote for this occasion called "Cowboy Up" and I totally bawl whenever he sings it. Bonnie and Larry have a singing group they belong to that sang and entertained Saturday morning. I didn't get any pictures of that because I was out walking laps, but it was good and appropriate! There was one band there Friday night that was heavy metal... I was like, really?
Anyway, it was definitely a memorable experience and now I'm going to bug my family to do one together! : ) I will never forget the feelings I had there, this is definitely my "cause".
The Survivor's lap. (Luckily my camera was hiding my ugly cry face.)
Larry performing.
Dancin' to Grandpa's songs.
Mad he can't go up on stage with Papas.
Another luminary I made for Randy's cousin Natalie, who is a brain tumor survivor.
Larry's Dad, F.B. Slade. He had bone cancer.
Walkin' for my angels.
I tried to get a good picture of the top of the hat...
Awww. This was actually after like 20 shots of him pulling dumb faces. He can actually take a normal picture! I am still in shock.
I know this is super blurry, but this is my mom's luminary after it was lit up.
Lori's looked really cool and had a bright light, this picture turned out pretty good.
Everyone decorates their camp site. Since our team name was Cowboy Up, we had a "boot hill" to remember the people we were doing this for. This is my section of the boot hill.
At the end of the relay they have a balloon launch. Before they launched, one of the directors read a poem that he had written for this event. He had a hard time reading through it and teared up a lot, which made me feel better about bawling my eyes out. It was beautiful, I'm going to try and track him down to get a copy of it.